As a man i realize that i am quickly getting older, and that i am bought on my image as my job is often to be in the public image and to sell myself. So often i will whiten my teeth and have a designer haircut, everyday i run 3miles and lift 120Kilograms on the bench press 160times a day. Simply because i am expected to hold a certain image else i quickly lose my place in social circles, in networking circles in business. Men are very aware of their image, and its generally accepted as the norm for a successful entrepreneur to have a James Bond type image about them. But if a woman wants to be successful who isn't so attractive and is told to spruce herself up a bit, the advice giver is quickly dubbed as a male chauvinistic pig. As a hypnotherapist, psychotherapist, counselor and personal development coach i have noticed over years of practice that people who are ugly are ugly because they don't think their attractive. Simply believing you are attractive is the key to being attractive. When you are in the mode where you have no cares in the world and you pull free expressions that demonstrate your emotions effectively you are more symmetrical and therefore more attractive to the opposite sex. Often when people have unclear goals about where they want to go in life, or what they are doing at this precise moment in time it shows in their ugliness For instance i meet alot of different people all the time, and some people have the strangest most inappropriate expressions. For instance its common for women who are uncomfortable with themselves, or men who are uncomfortable with themselves to have characteristics, mannerisms that turn everything into a joke, they almost try and become a comic character by pulling the most unattractive and mildly irritating faces in order to spark a reaction. This might be appropriate if you were on stage and you were trying to act in such a way that was comic, but while your having dinner with a potential client or at a business network meeting its totally inappropriate to pull facial expressions that do not fit the occasion. If your aware of your surroundings, aware of how to control yourself, aware of when you look and feel best and able to act on these reflections why would you not ensure you look the most appropriately you could look for the desired occasion? The only reason people struggle with these scenarios is because they haven't gave themselves an opportunity to have Personal Development coaching to take the time out of their lives, and to reflect and plan with what they want to do with it. The reason they haven't took the time out of their lives to do this is because they weren't ready to confront those scary parts of themselves. Its the same as most people are scared to go through their bills and bank statements every month to check their expendidure, but for adequate financial planning its a must, if you dont know what your outgoings are how can you begin to invest. Most people arent prepared to confront the fact that they are ugly, and unless they know where they are at, how can they build a plan to progress to the future they desire.
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